CoachEideHi All,
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Today’s subject, making something good of every situation.
In life, there are many situations that do not feel like a great experience. However, even though it feels like a bad experience, there are something good in every situation. In my life I have experienced this through many experiences.
There is something important here. It is not that everything is good that is the point here, it is the fact that even bad experiences have something good in them. It is important to remember this. I have been in situations where I did not see a light in the other end of the tunnel. In other words a situation where I thought about taken my own life. In this situation it is totally black. There is nothing great about life any longer, and I do not mean that it does just not feel bad, it really hurts to be alive. I have answers for you so if you have the need to talk about that, then go to the book an appointment or contact me privately through Twitter or Facebook. It is important that you do this quickly, and therefore do not book an appointment a few weeks away. Urgency is the key point when someone is in the black hole. I am here to help you see some light in the tunnel. If I can help, I will ask your permission before I call medical help.
So the fact that all situations are a win win situation, what are the outcomes? Many think it is a win or loose situation, but it is not, it is a win-win situation. You either success at doing something, or you learn something or how not to do something. I met my religion, I read one sentence that made me think that this was the correct place for me. It stated that the reason we are here on earth is to learn something. Coming from 3 suicide attempts throughout my life, I finally realized why we should be here even when we feel like it is hopeless. We are not finished learning the thing we were going to learn in this life, before we actually are ready to die.
Next in my life, I am putting myself into a situation where I might be looking at travelling a bit. In this situation, I am going to learn more than getting used to another language, I am going to learn to accept the people I meet along the way. I am going to learn to handle the way I am travelling, either bus, train or plane. It can be many upsetting things that can happen when we are learning to book the travel we are going to do. It can be many things that goes wrong. I have already tried to make one booking and I am glad we can have another go to book a trip. Otherwise I would not arrive where I was supposed too, and especially the day I was meant to arrive, it is fun to meet these challenges when one meet them with the right mindset. Look always for the seed in the situation.
Last week I had a sentence I read that fitted directly into this subject, ¨Always will I seek the seed of triumph in every adversity¨, this is a fantastic sentence. What is adversity? Adversity is a situation you find that are hard, either to learn or to get something good out of. It is important to know that you learn more from challenging situations, so thank you mum and brother for making me learn to be standing on my own two feet. However, I should wish you choose a different situation, spiritually you made me grow a lot. This show how we make a bad situation great, seeking the seed in an adverse situation.
In todays step, we are looking for adversity, adversity is what makes us grow. We have many good and great moments. We do what we want, we do what we like, and than suddenly we meet an adversity. It is now that we should realize that we need to seek the seed of triumph in this situation. There is something we shall learn from this situation and there are a triumph for us. It is not just to cut the bad situation out of your life, it is important to meet the situation in totally and find out how this situation can be a win-win situation for parties.
It is a great thing to solve, it is not easy, but it is not so hard that it is so difficult that we can not find out of it either. I hope, this has been a thought provoking little reminder for you and yours. Take care and remember, I am going to travel, I am going to find true health, and I love to teach and coach people, so if you want any of this too, get in touch.
Take care my friends, I find it interesting that we always seek a seed on the way to a triumph, when we meet an adversity. It is much better to have this mindset than to sit around and feel bad about adversity. I do not go looking for adversity to have a situation where I can have a learning situation, but when it happens, it is a great thing to be able to look at the learning in this, to see the positive in meeting these situation.
Guys, be positive, I want you all to realize this.
All the best,
John Eide
Life Coach
